4 self success.

Pending Growth🕊️
3 min readAug 23, 2021

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Success is the child of audacity.

One of the great models in life, the late Coach John Wooden, defined self success as follows:

“Peace of mind, which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you made the effort to do your best to become the best that you are capable of becoming.”

A success where you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone but YOU is self success:

Self-success is peace and it’s even more exciting when you do it for yourself because you have your whole life to give yourself the success you deserve.

Self Success doesn’t mean having lots of money but having peace and happiness inside.

Self success is not stepping on others to get to the top… success is patience and loving yourself through all odds.

Success is when everyone around you feels the success.

And…

Self success is peace of mind and a state of mind been self-compassionate.

In this article, im gonna walk you through your “self success”:

1. Vision your success before it happens:

Picture what you want yourself success to look like, that way you would be able to focus on it.

Remember… “where the mind is, energy flow”.

There are lots of distractions in the world and keeping the focus on one thing is hard and that’s why you need to picture yourself as a success. if possible, create a vision board and place it where you will see it every single time… it’s gonna be a reminder to you and a tracker to your activities if the process is leading you there or putting you away. If you need to cut down on some things.

Note: it all starts from within( the zeal and persistence) you have for yourself success.

2. No comparison:

There are two quotes to explain this point:

“There’s no comparison between the sun and the moon” by Cassey Ho.

And…

“Comparison is the thief of joy” attributed to President Theodore Roosevelt

Because… It evokes a powerful sentiment that can be life-changing. If we compare ourselves to others, we may be left with feelings of inferiority or superiority and neither creates an emotionally healthy human being!

So, why compare yourself success to others?

Note: Your best story could be their worst and their worst could be your best….

Practice gratitude!

3. Have faith:

Believe in yourself, the self success you want, your strength, and everything attached to yourself success just like the blood in your body — Let it be the drive in your life.

Challenges are gonna be there, the faith is what is gonna keep you pushing forward.

Note: If you don’t believe in yourself, im sorry… no one will.

4. Being positive:

I know the environment has a great influence on our life but I still believe it all starts within.

The seeds you sow is what will grow…

You can’t heal in the same environment you got sick, change your environment. The mind is more powerful than you think but you can control it with space.

Create your mind to be a favorable place because you spend the most time with it.

Remember;

Do what builds your confidence not what proves others wrong.

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Pending Growth🕊️
Pending Growth🕊️

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